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  • What makes men commit?
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  • What it can mean to your relationship when a man feels (and acts) his best.
  • And more!
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Jonathon Aslay has done the women of the world a great service….he has cracked the code to “understanding men.” If you’re ready to have a relationship that really works, dive into his vast wealth of wisdom on men, women and relationships.
Arielle Ford, Author of Wabi Sabi Love
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Is it False Advertising if He Backs Out?

May 2nd, 2016|1 Comment

Is it False Advertising if He Backs Out? Believe it or not, there are many men who are seeking committed midlife relationships. However, while they may advertise that they want

How a Man’s Low Self Esteem Can Cause Him To Pull Away

April 4th, 2016|2 Comments

Experience is the best teacher and today I have one to share with you from my personal vault. Growing up, I was conditioned to court a woman as a demonstration

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How Can You Tell if a Guy is Only Looking for Sex?

March 19th, 2016|0 Comments

How Can You Tell if a Guy is Only Looking for Sex? I’m often asked by women how they can tell if a guy seriously likes them or if he’s

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Why it Seems so Hard to Find a Life Partner

March 12th, 2016|0 Comments

Why it Seems so Hard to Find a Life Partner As midlife daters, we’ve all accumulated some bumps and scratches along the way. It can be really frustrating. Why does

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Why Men Like to Project About the Future

February 29th, 2016|0 Comments

Why Men Like to Project About the Future One woman recently wrote to me: "One of my biggest frustrations with dating is that many men like to project about the future.

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How Important is Honesty in a Relationship?

January 28th, 2016|0 Comments

How Important is Honesty in a Relationship? Most people will tell you that honesty in a relationship is a character quality that’s very important to them. It’s a natural sentiment,

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