Claim Your Worth and He’ll Claim YOU

There’s a saying about the relationship between men and women that’s defined by a fruit tree. “Easy” women are represented by the low-lying fruit, and they are, by definition, “easy to come by.” They have low self-worth, and thereby “give their fruit” to most passers-by. They come by the dozen, so men don’t have to try hard to find them.

Then there are the women at the top of the tree who are the finest of the pick: they are ripe, sweet, and can only be accessed by a select few. These women are considered of high self-worth, and can only be “picked” by men who climb the tall tree to reach the branches of divinity. Obviously, he’ll be challenged, but the reward is worth it.

Great Things Happen To Women With High Self-Worth

If a woman doesn’t claim her self-worth, men won’t stake claim, either. That is why women who are quick to head to the bedroom after meeting a man seldom establish a committed relationship. Sorry ladies, but it’s instinct for men: if he doesn’t have to make an effort to win your love, he won’t appreciate it as much when he gets it.

Don’t Settle For Bad Behavior

Ladies: if you spot bad behavior from men, don’t put up with it. If he pushes you too fast to get physical, take it as a red flag that he’s not looking for an emotional connection. Reserve yourself for the man who is. Women with high self-worth will attract good men, meaning, if you respect yourself, so will men you’re dating. Observe a man’s actions: do they reflect how much he values you? Is it on par with your self-worth? You are the one who sets the bar.

Keep Challenging Your Man

A man’s interest wanes if he can easily receive a woman’s love. If she stops challenging a man to win her heart, she may unintentionally weaken his attraction. Not necessarily physically, but emotionally– a man will pull away when he isn’t being stimulated by goal-oriented instincts. Once you’ve determined you’re “in love” with a man, let him continue pursuing you.

Women Who Please At All Costs Are Chasing Men

Once a women surrenders to a man in the push and pull of courting, it’s like signaling “game over”– but men love to play! If she’s also trying to please him by offering favors and caring for him while he doesn’t have to do more than show up in her life, she officially becomes the “pursuer.” You might as well take the joystick out of a man’s hand at this point, because he can’t play his favorite game.

So as much as you instinctively want to care for a man, don’t overdo it with your free love. It’s your man’s objective to earn your affection– you just have to appreciate his perseverance. Don’t forget that he’s climbing a tall tree, risking injury, just to have your delicate fruit. Yeah, you’re worth it.