Single Eligible Men – What to Look for and How to Find Them

Single Eligible Men – What to Look for and How to Find Them

There’s plenty of good guys out there no matter where you live.  But what if you have been in a relationship, enjoyed his company, felt like things were headed in the right direction and then got dumped?  Or what if you had opened your heart to a man, stepped into intimate waters with him and then found out he was married?  There is no greater pain then to realize you’ve been betrayed, duped and dropped.  You wonder; how could you have let yourself be so foolishly led astray?  This is not a time to replay the miniseries or the miseries.  There are single eligible men out there, you just need to know what to look for and how to find them.

What Does a Single Eligible Man Look Like?

Guys who are available for a relationship are generally living their lives in a healthy balanced manner.  They have goals, priorities, good friends and seek out activities that add to their lives.  They may not be on the cover of GQ, Rolling Stone or People Magazine, but if they were rated by what’s on the inside rather than just looks they should be.  Men who are worthy of your time and attention usually don’t get drawn to drama.  They enjoy peace of mind, good times and engaging conversation.  When seeking out a male partner who is a good match for you, it’s good to understand what he is searching for in a woman.

What Type of a Woman is Attractive to Single Eligible Men?

If you want to attract an unmarried, available man who has good intentions and potential for a healthy relationship, know that he is seeking a quality gal who is relatable and real.  Guys are drawn to confident women who love their lives and don’t need a man to complete them.  Men are enticed by the spice in your life.  In other words if you like to have fun, pursue variety in your activities and possess a wicked sense of humor you will have no trouble reeling him in.

How do I Find a Single Eligible Man?

You may have heard this before, but when you stop making the search an obsession, he will appear.  Often times women (and men) who are exuding a needy persona actually push away potential quality mates.  Instead of focusing on finding a man, brush up on the ability to converse about topics he can relate to such as world events, local issues, politics, and sports. Position yourself for success by visiting places guys frequent.  Start paying attention to local events, restaurants, music venues, and classes that are appealing to the male species.  Insert yourself into their world and see what happens!

There are plenty of single eligible men out there who will cherish you and treat you well.  Women don’t need to settle for the bad boys who love them and later kick them to the curb, or the great pretenders who hide their wedding ring long enough to deceive you and leave you.  It’s time to position yourself for the relationship you desire and deserve.