Choose Me or Lose Me

It’s incredibly painful to wait for a partner to meet you at the emotional level you live at, and he never arrives.

What’s worse is if you’re waiting for him to return after the end of a relationship and say, “I choose you.”

He let you go, he let you down, and he let you slip through his fingers.

Not only is it gut wrenching, but it’s also hard to bounce back from. You feel like he’s trampled all over your heart and soul.

What if you decided to look at it as a favor?

Because it is!

He freed you to find the man who WILL meet you at your emotional, spiritual, and mental level. This is the man who will never let you go because you’re the one he’s been looking for all his life.

I know it doesn’t feel like that now, but he cleared the way for the right man to appear. You could have wasted years waiting for him to commit… and the average woman waits over FIVE YEARS for a man to arrive at her level.

Instead, you’re free to find Mr. Right, right now. Like I said, he did you a favor.

There’s nothing wrong with him, he just wasn’t ready for you. Wish him love and have compassion for him as you let him go. He just wasn’t prepared to make the journey with you.

And that’s OK.

If you can look at a breakup in this way, you’ll heal faster and move on, and you’ll truly be ready for the man who will move mountains to be with you.

You deserve a man who treats you as his priority, not as an option. This is what “not settling” looks like. It’s not about his hairline, his bank account, or his car. It’s about whether he’s ready for you in your full glory.

It’s about whether he can meet your needs.

It’s about whether he can be your rock when the chips are down. And whether he lets you be his.
It’s about whether he makes your heart sing and your belly do flip-flops.
And it’s about whether he makes you feel cherished, loved, and safe.

That man is out there waiting for you… but if you’re wasting time with the man who hasn’t stepped up, you’re stuck and can’t find Mr. Right For You.

Stop the madness. Let the wrong man go and hold out for the One. Choose yourself, and expect nothing less than one who is all-in with mind, body, spirit, and heart.