Have you ever thought if you had a mate you’d be happier? I have and I’m letting that go.
Here is a short video sharing my personal experiencing of letting go of the notion “I need a mate to feel happy” and maybe some of you can relate.
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I absolutely love this video. You nailed it !!!!
Thank you Jonathon for your vulnerability and revealing your heart. I so wish more men would catch this truth and start the journey of self discovery and self love. I have discovered it all begins with untangling myself emotionally from the tribal cycle (family of origin) and the conditioning that I took with me into my adult hood. Here I am nearly 70 and light bulbs are still flashing on! Sharon Pearson has done a lot of work on this and her book Ultimate You is amazing. All the best for your future Jonathon and your passion for changing lives.
Johanna
This was great Jonathan! What you are saying really is true. I have been practicing this to some extent and have become much more conscious in dating and not struggling with my decisions as much.
My son is one of those lucky individuals who has been working on this self love and consciousness for a long time and I see people come up to him all the time all around the city we live in. Everyone enjoys him and desires his company. This works well for him and I just watch this in action all the time.
I love your passion to wake us up to love ourselves! Thank you so much!!!!
That was so great, thank you for sharing your truth! This was very helpful, especially the past about choosing fear over love. I’m been doing some really intense self-love work over the past couple years, but broke up last May from a relationship of a little over a year and a half and am still not completely ready to go back online. You see, in the 2 years, 3 month since I was last online dating I turned 50. So I’ve made 100 excuses for not diving in again, but it’s really just fear of facing a lot of rejection if I put myself out there. So thank you for helping me see that fear for what it really is ❤️
Hugs, Jonathon! You’re in transition and again helping us do the same. We are all in this together. Love you!
You are speaking my language. My life is abundant filled with self care practice like beautiful Yin Yoga, attending woman’s circles, Dancing and laughing. i have experienced great love and there is no greater than the love for oneself. Don’t get me wrong, some days are tricky because holding a masculine souls hand is true bliss but now is my time to shine brightly and I choose love over fear for the future. I am grateful for your passionate words Jonathon.
X Melissa
so amazing
Now you’re talkin’… 🙂 Sounds like you’re steeped in the principles of ACIM; besides choose love over fear, knowing that giving is receiving begins with giving to ourselves first in a healthy way instead of an unhealthy codependent way of giving to get anything from anyone. And one of my favorite quotes: “In the end, only kindness matters”… Jewel. Love doesn’t need to be sought or found, it’s who we ARE.
Jonathan, I loved what you had to say. Your honesty inspires honesty. You modeled what you’re trying to convey with the passion, enthusiasm and openness of your speech. You’re on the right track. I’m on that track, too. You just nailed it with that video. Keep going!
i got it