Have you ever wondered why men seem boring as they get older?
Can I be honest, I’m been asking myself the same question and I’ve come to realize I’ve lost the desire to chase, but not for the reasons you might be thinking.
So I mentioned new research and while much of it is anecdotal, I’d like to share my true confessions.
Today I’m going to talk about my perceptions & experiences about hunting or chasing in the early stages dating, mating & relating and the REAL reason why men have slacked off.
Watch the short video below and be prepared to expand your thinking… and please don’t hate me for sharing my truth.
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Dear Jonathon,
I appreciate your candor—always—and also the thought you put into making this video. ACE is a great mnemonic to have in my back pocket to keep me on track. All your points on midlife men shifting their energies is well taken. I especially hear you on the use of the word investment. Your energy and commitment to sharing your wisdom always touches me. When I feel a lack of enthusiasm taking me down, the thought of one of your “bear hugs” helps me reclaim my radiance. Thank you! I appreciate you!
Great video! Treat men and women equal. I compliment men when I see something pleasing as a nice hair cut, shirt, shoes, jacket etc. visual as well as compliments to something intelligent. ACE is the place to be when meeting people and I don’t mean the hardware store…..but then again people do meet in the hardware store just like the super market!
Appreciate, compliment, enthusiasm
Interesting approach,
I tried this on my 50 something guy and nothing, nadda, zip : 0
My guy just says thanks. I notice other women complimenting my guy and he lights up. What the bleep ?
I feel taken for granted, I feel like the boring wife instead of the exciting girlfriend
I feel like he’s not interested in me, that he doesn’t see me, I’m invisible
Perhaps we are simply incompatible and that’s that
Let’s put it this way Peace. If it comes from the heart and it’s sincere, you can never say the wrong thing to the right person. Hope that helps. Jonathon