Why Most Dating Advice about Men is WRONG!
The following is a bit of judgment and I ask a bit of latitude to explain…
From what I’ve noticed in the area of dating advice about men, it is mostly women talking about how men “should” act instead of hearing from men on how men act.
It is like asking a man to describe what it’s like to give birth or what it feels like to go through a monthly menstrual cycle… men can’t.
Therefore, if you’re hearing advice about men, is it based on human behavior or what women want to hear?
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the most common dating advice about men and why it might be setting women up for FAILURE in their relationships.
Let’s talk about… Why Most Dating Advice About Men Is Wrong
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I appreciate your honesty, Jonathon. We can’t follow advice that’s just one-size-fits all. At midlife, most of us have been through trauma(s) and crises that maybe we never dealt with as well as we could have. Nothing wrong with that, it’s just a fact.
But I’ve quit listening to the advice from dating coaches who seem to operate for 20-somethings who’ve not yet been hurt in relationships. I’m focusing more on loving myself and my spiritual journey rather than hope I can find an emotionally healthy guy at this time.
Thank you for your honesty!
Hey Lisa, Happy to hear you enjoyed the content and I do believe life experience has helped me be an appropriate coach for folks in mid-life. Sending hugs…
Jonathon, Haven’t finished listening but simply have to say you could never this lifetime offend me with anything you say. I love that you are honest and speak your mind – authenticity is a beautiful thing.
Thanks, Linda… smiles
Jonathon, This was brilliant and I so agree with you that most of the female coaches coaching women are missing huge hunks of reality. I love Matthew and I will have to check out Marni. The female coach I do have great respect for is Alison Armstrong. I can easily say you and one other male share my #1 spot. So, thank you. I greatly appreciate you. I totally agree with you that healing old wounds is vital. I will also say that counseling is not always the answer and doesn’t always work in the way expected. I went through years of counseling and thought I healed from all the abuse and trauma from my first marriage – thought I did, until I was hugely triggered and realized I had to do something more drastic. Drastic meaning literally go down to hell to face those demons, scream and yell and blast it all out, and then forgive, literally speak forgiveness for everything he did to me. Dark night of the soul isn’t a one-time experience. If you truly want to heal you spend a whole lot of time with those demons in hell.
Oh, by the way, Lizzie Borden was a living, breathing ax murderer. I believe she died in the 1920s or thereabouts. Google her – fascinating person in a very gruesome way.
Hey Linda, First off, thank you and I appreciate your feedback. Yes, I love Alison Armstrong and the only reason why I didn’t mention her is because she’s not a dating coach per se. Thanks for the heads up on Lizzie Borden, I remember seeing a movie with Elizabeth Montgomery but that’s it… I will check it out. All my best. J.