How Masculine & Feminine Energy Affects Dating
If you’ve been following my work or you’re new to my voice, let me be upfront about something… I have an issue with the whole masculine and feminine conversation with respect to dating, mating, and relating.
Part of my frustration is because of the MISUSE of the concepts and how it can often set men & women up for failure in relationships even though it’s trying to help.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation about the masculine & feminine energy in the dating process and yes, it will be the world according to Jonathon.
Let’s talk about… How Masculine & Feminine Energy Affects Dating
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Self love for me Jonathon, appears to be spending lunch with you pretty much every day. I do believe when this move is over (I know, who in their right mind moves in August during the only heat Oregon has!) I will indulge in a Jonathon marathon over a weekend! Thank you so much, my friend, for being so awesome and having an infinite amount of wisdom.
Awe… thank you. Much appreciated.
Jonathon, this is without a doubt the most powerful, absolutely correct podcast I believe you have done. Yes, you are the “outlier” here because many people are huge on pushing “be in your feminine power.” I could not agree with you more – be authentic, be yourself, just be you, whoever you may be.Doing and receiving, yes this is pushed. Frankly, I felt closest to a man when he dropped the “masculine” mask and was vulnerable and able to receive. Do we like a man to be smart, strong, and confident? of course, but soft, open, and receiving heals wounds and opens doors.
You are so correct that many women cringe at the word submissive, at least those of us who grew up with the whole “wives submit” thrown at us.Well, I’ve said enough. Thank you so very, very much for speaking your truth which is also my truth, and I am certain many others. We need your voice, and know that you are hugely appreciated. One of these days we’ll talk I’m sure.
Happy to hear this resonates with you and your comment is so much appreciated.
“Each human heart is unique.” I love that comment and your sense of humor, Jonathon.
I have a theory that all this masculine/feminine stuff arose because both men and women are totally confused about how to date smart nowadays. All the rules got thrown out the window and nobody knows how to approach each other with understanding and compassion.
For instance, I know that lots of men have been hurt financially and emotionally by divorce because my financial status comes up before a man even gets to know me on a deeper level. When I mention I am a cancer survivor and had some financial woes, instead of being empathetic some men want to know “How are you doing now financially?”
Am I wrong that that offends me? I got my act together, dude. I don’t expect a man to PROVIDE for me in the “I Love Lucy” 1950s fashion. I’ve been supporting myself since I was 18 years old; in fact, I used to help support my parents! But instead, people make assumptions about me …and I gotta admit, that makes me angry.
So I’m giving online dating a complete break right now because some of these daters have no clue how to be kind and get to know a woman before deciding they know what is in her head and heart.
Thank you, I really appreciate that… sending smiles your way.