Men Won’t Stick Around if You Don’t Have THIS!
Did you know that one of the most searched terms by women seeking romantic love is centered around why men pull away, why men ghost, or why men disappear?
The reason why so many women are seeking answers to these questions is that I believe they are wondering what it takes for a man to stick around. Sticking around, being all in, committing to a relationship. What does it take for a man to love a woman enough to do those things?
From what I’ve witnessed, women often blame themselves, which in my belief is something very harmful to one’s self-esteem and I want to address the true reason for what might be coming up for men & women.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation needed as to what it takes for anyone to stick around and go the distance in romantic love.
Let’s talk about… Men Won’t Stick Around If You Don’t Have THIS!
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limerence
[ˈlimərəns]
NOUN
psychology
1. the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one’s feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship.
Great podcast episode!! I really like reframing needs as desires and ultimately having a relationship where the couple mutually gives and receives in self-respect.
Limerance – being infatuated or obsessed with someone with a strong desire for the feelings to be reciprocated.
I had an “aha moment” when I realized that in some of my past relationships I seemed to be a rescuer when he didn’t have as much self-respect as I thought. Grateful to continually be improving my GPS!
So grateful for the videos and podcasts you share!! Sending you a “hug of love.”
Limerence: a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and have one’s feelings reciprocated.
New word for a familiar feeling.
Thank you Shani…
Hi Jonathan, I love your podcasts! The definition of Limerence according to wikipedia is:
Limerence is a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and have one’s feelings reciprocated.
Thank you for all your great insights and advice.
Maureen Farrell
Thanks so much…
lim·er·ence
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nounPSYCHOLOGY
the state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically experienced involuntarily and characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one’s feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship
Thank you Stanze…
Jonathon – this was an amazing podcast, absolutely brilliant. Thank you so much for managing to cover so many super vital things in this single podcast.
Limerence is not love. It’s not a crush. It’s a crushing obsession with another person — an intense romantic infatuation.
Jonathon, I had to watch Ghosts of Girlfriends Past – what fun. Thank you for mentioning it. I can’t say that I would want a reformed “playboy” – well maybe if he was Matthew McConaughey – Nah, that would be Limerence, right? Again, Jonathon, great podcast. Thank you so very much for all your great podcasts. You are absolutely amazing always.
Smiling from ear to ear, thank you.