Why Feminine Leaning Back Turns Men Off
Have you ever heard from others the idea of masculine and feminine energy?
If yes, have you ever heard from other coaches the idea of leaning back when a man pulls away?
If you answered no, let me give you a little heads up… there is this ridiculous notion that energy is either masculine or feminine when it comes to interacting in a romantic setting and I’m here to tell you, that’s hogwash. And because of this energy if a man pulls back the best course of action is to lean back, which I believe creates more problems than good.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation about what to do when a man pulls away and why you are better off leaning in instead of leaning back.
Let’s talk about… Why Feminine Leaning Back Turns Men Off
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It’s a f***ing mind-set, or the way a person’s brain woks, isn’t it?
It’s not ‘energy’
And neither is ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’ (which is derogatory to both sexes, IMHO)
Yes, people’s brains work in different ways.
So regardless of gender, people need to learn how to be confident and understanding of themselves (self-love)……. and learn how to be tolerant (within thier own boundaries) and loving of those they choose to be with.
Miscommunication seems to be an issue between heterosexual couples….. and for those who want to make a good relationship into a great one then advice about good communication is key. 🙂
Sadie, you said it!!! Exactly, it’s a mindset and not energy and as you said, it’s derogatory to the sexes. Thank you for sharing… much appreciated.
Jonathon, keep working on this because you are 500% correct and women need to get this into their brains somehow, some way. I’ll tell you, I don’t listen to women coaches any longer and some of them I have literally unfollowed for just this reason — advice that isn’t viable, workable, or accurate. And, yes, I do remember you mentioned Marni was good and at some point I will listen to her. For now, kudos to you, and high five for telling it like it is! Jonathon, I’ll tell you, I will never get tired of being reminded of all of these truths. So, thank you very much.
Jonathon, I will add one other thing – authenticity is huge. Both men and women need to be authentically exactly who they are. Not all men, and certainly not all women, would authentically be exactly the percentages put out for feminine and masculine. Be who you are because someone will desire exactly who that is. Pretending to be either more masculine, or more feminine, will never work. How long can you keep up that ruse!
This is the best podcast I’ve ever heard on this topic! Hands down.
Men also ABSOLUTELY know we are playing this game. 100%. It’s all over the internet so men know of this game.
Every time I have done this nonsense I’ve almost always received a text saying, “it doesn’t seem like you are interested” or “did I say something wrong?”. Or they go away completely.
Why would a man want to talk to us if we look like we are ignoring them??!
Leaning back absolutely makes us look disinterested.
I was looking for a man’s take on this and found exactly what I was looking for!