Does He Really Love You or Is It False Attraction?
As a dating & relationship coach, I study human behavior and I often wonder why two people can say they love each other only to have the relationship fall apart.
Lately, I have observed so many casual relationships because they lack depth or commitment, and this is often the result of little or no deep care & love for one or the other. This can be a result of what I’ve witnessed which is something I call false or fake attraction, which is not truly loving.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation of love and what it really looks like vs. those folks who are experiencing false or fake attraction.
Let’s talk about… Does He Really Love You or Is It False Attraction?
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C J McLaughlin says
This podcast resonated with me so much. Yes, Jonathan, sex is very important to me too. Having been with a husband who was impotent for 14 years of our 23 year marriage and then subsequently meeting a man who loves sex had quite an impact on me. Unfortunately it is what you call fake attraction. So the relationship has a “shelf life” because one day I will be ready to let go and move on to perhaps having a full relationship. But I would not have missed this experience for the world. I think I needed this side trip on my journey to kick start my own growth. I am working hard on getting better spiritually and loving myself.
Jonathon Aslay says
Happy to hear this resonated with you CJ. HUGS
Linda Curtis says
I can so relate to the whole “not have missed this experience for the world.” That is exactly how I feel! Lots and lots of love to you, you are beautiful.
Jonathon Aslay says
Right back at ya… sending hugs
Debbie says
Hi Jonathon – I loved this podcast and the awareness it awoke – especially reminding myself of the settling for fake attraction !!!
It is deeper love I desire !!
I forwarded to a friend to have a listen as well – Added some additional notes to my file !!
And offer myself more self love !!
Linda Curtis says
Jonathon – I’m sitting here thinking, boy I missed out more than I realized. We weren’t allowed to dance, or drink, and girls had to be on one side of the flagpole, that side of campus, and boys on the other. IF you were caught too close to a boy (being a girl) you were put on “Social” – yeah, wouldn’t that school/church have just loved this whole “social distancing.” I could go on and on but I’m going to go back and keep hearing about everything I missed out on – boohoo.
Jonathon Aslay says
That’s sucks… sad face.
Linda Curtis says
Well, Jonathon, I’ve referred you to every woman I love who is spiritually mature, which is pretty much every woman I know because that’s who I hang with! I absolutely need to write a raving review. I will go to your YouTube channel and do just that because you are simply amazing. Thank you abundantly, overwhelming for this podcast because it was brilliant. Thank you for being you!
Jonathon Aslay says
WOW! Thank you…
Pamela says
You have a delightful outlook and communicate so well. Thank You…helps me understand so much
Jonathon Aslay says
Thank you so much… much appreciated.
Ipek says
Hi Jonathan!
I got to know you through the IDo podcasts, and totally thankful for that! Really nice to meet you and get to hear you talking about many amazing things about how self love is important to attract true love.
Loved this one very much. Thanks for creating some time to do these podcasts because even though I started to listen to them couple of days ago, I tend to listen more and more. Hopefully, I will be able to use what I learnt from you!
Off to check 5 love languages now, wishing you a great day!
Jonathon Aslay says
awe… thanks so much and happy to hear you this helped.