Most Men Breadcrumb and They Don’t Even Know It
Have you ever heard the term “breadcrumbing” when it comes to dating, mating & relating?
Basically, it’s when a person gives very little to the relationship, giving just enough so the other person doesn’t leave, which often creates anxiety for the one who is getting crumbs.
Here’s the thing about men when it comes to this common activity know as breadcrumbing, many of them don’t even know they are doing it and to the receiver, it might feel like they are doing it intentionally.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER understanding of what’s really going on inside a guy’s head when breadcrumbing occurs and what a woman should know when this happens.
Let’s talk about… Most Men Breadcrumb and They Don’t Even Know It
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Susan says
Hmm. Yes, breadcrumbs. I’ve definitely gotten them. [BUT] looking back through the years, I’ve given some, too. Once to a wonderful man who deserved way more, and he got more …. in marrying a lovely woman, who is a mutual friend. I am very happy for them, but it was one for the “regrets” column. Great podcast Jonathon.
Jonathon Aslay says
Yes, this is common in that we can all do it without even knowing it… thanks Susan.
Lynette Hutchison says
I have had several bad relationships. Working on childhood wounding. I’m going through your recommended books. Thank you so much for the work you do! I do wish someone had taught me all live learned in the last year! By the way, Shawshank Redemption is a favorite of mine. Keep up the good work! Fuck! Lol. Big hugs! I’m a hugger too!
Jonathon Aslay says
So happy to hear this resonated with you… thanks for the hug. <3
Em says
So let’s say a man is at a 2 only a few weeks into dating but he’s told me he definitely wants a relationship (not necessarily with me, but just in general)
Do they gradually increase from a 2, to giving more, as they get to know a woman and choose her? Or do some men just never go beyond a 2 and yet think that’s a relationship?
Jonathon Aslay says
Both