Being in Love Isn’t A Mood, It’s A Commitment (Men Step Up)
Can I get fully transparent with you?
Since I’m sure you said yes, I have a bone to pick with most men when it comes to their actions centered around commitment in the early stages of dating, mating & relating.
This bone is because it seems like so many men are rather insensitive to women making false promises of commitment, throwing out words like love without any real promise of commitment. In fact, it’s almost like a false promise because many men often skirt around the conversation of what commitment really means, even when they say they are in love.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation on what commitment really means in relationship to the words “I love you.”
Let’s talk about… Being in Love Isn’t A Mood, It’s A Commitment (Men Step Up)
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Good talk and I like how you say that women and men need to work Equally with building the relationship together
Thank you, Neliie. Much appreciated.
Jonathon, This was really, really good. Took me three days to get through it, not because I wasn’t fascinated but because I have had men seriously committed, years and years of marriage committed, so I was attempting to figure out what word I would use instead of commitment. Nope, didn’t figure it out. All I came up with is that the next man in my life would be with me exactly how I am with children! With children you have to be committed from day one. Even when your family says, “Don’t come visit until she becomes ‘nice’ again,” you are still there just enjoying the show, little foot stomping NO, NO, NO, NO, NO! So, good, bad, ugly, and beyond he will still have to adore me.
True commitment story – former boyfriend (now deceased) wanted detailed list of everything I am allergic to. When I arrived at his house he had gone through his kitchen and threw out everything that had even a miniscule amount of something I was allergic or sensitive to. He then proceeded to educate grocery store managers on why they should not place certain flours next to each other. There are three people I could trust totally with my health unreservedly – me, my daughter, and this boyfriend! My ex husband literally would have killed me with his unconcern and yet there he was for 17 years, committed and faithful.
I totally understand what you said in this podcast but have to admit my brain hurts attempting to get it all to make sense in the reality of what my life has been. Thank you, Jonathon, I don’t know anyone who makes me think as hard as you do. You really are brilliant.
Thank you for sharing and I appreciate the parent aspect of commitment… that’s how a relationship should be and I say should as it would be nice if they were that committed.