5 Things A Man Says When He Is Emotionally Attached ~ Listen to His Words
Have you ever wondered if a man is emotionally attached and investing in you?
This is a common question I receive as a dating coach for women and it is kinda easy to spot the men who are going to invest in you by the words they say.
In fact, when a man is emotionally attached to you, there are common things most guys say out loud.
Words, words, words, if you love me show me and yet the words matter just as much as actions.
In today’s podcast, we are going to explore the DEEPER reasons why men say what they do and what it means to them.
Let’s talk about… 5 Things A Man Says When He Is Emotionally Attached ~ Listen to His Words
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Maureen Farrell says
Jonathan, I am happy to report that I have used intentionality to find Peter, my current boyfriend; I wish there was a better term because he is not a boy and while we are friends we are becoming much more than that! We started seeing each other September 1, 2020, yes during covid! I am here to say that it is possible to find and develop a relationship during this pandemic! Our first few dates were walks outdoors and we both wore face masks so it was a while before we saw our full faces! On Halloween we agreed to be exclusive and monogamous and we have been developing a strong bond ever since. We were going to take a trip together between christmas and new years but because of the surge decided to stay put. Here it is New Years eve and we will be spending the last day of 2020 and the first day of 2021 together.
I just listened to your podcast on what a man says when he’s emotionally attached. Peter has said or done each of those 5 things, including planning another trip for us to take in 2021 after we’ve both gotten the vaccine! I feel safe and secure around him and am so happy he is in my life. I mentioned in prior messages to this group that he has had performance issues in the bedroom. He took the initiative and talked to his doctor about it. I’ve assured him that we will work through this together. At first I was worried his ED might be a real issue, but not now.
I am 66 yo widow and he is a 66 yo widower – we both had long happy marriages so we both know what that looks like. Our lives have taken different paths with some similarities; me a conventional life and healthcare career, he an artistic life with a technical/IT career that supported his lifestyle.
My question for you is how do I stop worrying about this relationship not working out? My brain sometimes goes to those dark places and when you mentioned that even when things are going well, as is my case, that things still might not work out. I don’t want those voices in my head to sabotage this relationship! Can you offer any advice?
Jonathon Aslay says
Relationships are a leap of faith… trust in yourself is the most important thing you can do for yourself knowing that no matter what happens, you’re going to be okay. Focus on that for now…
Susan Welsh says
Loved the “5 Things a Man Says” article and took notes on the recap. Would those same 5 issues apply if a female asks a man for advice, makes plans, etc., or should she just “lean waaay back” in those areas? LOL
Jonathon Aslay says
Yes, for emotionally healthy (non-Ego based) people who seek a two-lane street relationship, it works both ways
Sherry says
Thank you. That made so much sense, it sure will make me look at things better
Jonathon Aslay says
Thank you very much…