How Fearful Avoidant Men Fall In Love, THIS MUST HAPPEN!
Are you familiar with love attachment styles?
This is the study of how we bond emotionally with another based on how we were raised by our parents between the ages of birth and around 7 to 12 years old.
There is a class of men and women called avoidant and they so deeply want love and are also deeply afraid of attachment, and some are known as fearful avoidants.
In today’s episode, we are going to explore the DEEPER conversation about fearful-avoidant men and how they lean into love.
Let’s talk about… How Fearful Avoidant Men Fall In Love ~ THIS MUST HAPPEN!
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Well, Jonathon, first thing I’ll say is I don’t believe extroverts ever, ever don’t feel like going to a party. We don’t need an invitation, or a commitment, we’ll crash any party! At least that was the case before COVID, now the world is attempting to force us to be introverts – yeah, good luck with that. As soon as we have our life back, BOING, here I am! Trapped, oh yeah, the words “wives submit” send the heebie-jeebies down my spine every time!
Oh, Jonathon, I love the parental role. Being a mother was the absolute best experience in the world, and now a grandmother. The kiddos know it, too. Daughter dropped off oldest for art and cooking lessons and the other two came along for the ride, little boy could have stayed home with dad but chance to see me outweighs everything. Smallest is only two so she tags along with mom everywhere. Of course, when it was time for them to leave so we could get on with making meatloaf and then art class, tiny girl says “Bye Mommy.” She was planning on staying!
The conversation of commitment is so valuable – both for men and women to understand so keep on keeping on, Jonathon. You are an expert and how awesome that you share your brilliance with the world.
Haven’t seen that movie in years – thanks for reminder, time to watch it again. Well, that or American Gigolo!
Jonathon, those aren’t humbling events, those are flat out Prize Fight knockouts. You are an amazing man. Your journey is inspirational for sure. You give new meaning to the words strength through adversity.
Linda, you are such an Angel… thank you kindly.
This didn’t say anything on how a man falls in love or what must happen for him o fall in love.
During the podcast, I shared that a Fearful Avoidant must overcome their fears of abandonment or intimacy before they can love and it usually takes a humbling event for it to spark healing. Did you not hear that?
Hi Jonathan, would the same apply, like me as a Fearful avoidant woman? Try to be perfect or try too hard to be liked , then don’t trust a man who says they like me, find me attractive, fear and panic attacks then , what’s the expectation? Feel responsible for other person feelings..
To some degree… yes.