89% Go Slow or Act Passive For THIS Reason
You’ve been told men are hunters and they love the chase. Then why is it some men act interesting and yet go slow or almost seem passive in their approach?
Here’s the problem with linear advice, you can’t apply the drive for sex (biology) to relationships. What I meant to say, the advice you’ve been told about men going after what they want doesn’t always hold up when we’re talking about the dating process.
So, when a man goes slow or seems passive, there’s a legit reason for this which has nothing to do with biology and everything to do with conditioning.
In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER reasons men act the way they do to help you better understand the human condition called dating, mating & relating.
Let’s talk about… 89% Of Men Go Slow Or Act Passive For THIS Reason
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Blessings Dear Johnathon thank you for your thoughts and caring for all women, but I have to dis agreed with this last pod cast, I am Originally from Mexico and it could be a cultural thing but to be a woman, feel like a woman and act like a woman is very important for a woman and I believe in the energies masculine and Feminine, I have read a lot of books by John Gray and listened to his Youtube videos and I believe this energies gives the person ( nan or woman) the drive needed at the moment of a particular need , for example a single mother she needs to act in her masculine energy to get through at work and take care of the needs of her children and her own but as soon as she gets home she has to enter in her Feminine energy to nurture and feed her children…
On the other hand men can do as well single Father use his natural male energy to work but to com home has to switch to nurture his children …
The problem here is as you mention because is true the childhood wounds and wounds that happen in life they creat a wall in that system of shifting from one energy to another and also the lack of example from the gender it self when I was living in Mexico mt mother thought me the two ways of life the ” house wife life ” and the “working class” to be aware of of the situation in a couples life to when ever is needed jump in and help the spouse … Here unfortunately is a life of work , work and infinite work. Very little time to hangout relax chat cars going too fast people rushing here and there to tell you the truth when I arrived here it was so confusing now I have 11 years in this country and is more confusing women wants to rule the world and men do not know what to do and start dating eachother becauae women are very agressive , sorry If I sound too bold but I feel that I needed to express this I love my feminine energy cause it makes me feel sexy and when I’m at work I really need the masculine energy I work as a cook so I need the male agresion to do my work and when I get out my shift I enjoy feeling weak. Like a danmcel in the forest. Thank you Johnathon I really like your pod cast Your information is very important God bless you take care.
Thank you for sharing… just curious, what part did you disagree with?
Thank you for asking that, Jonathon, because in my reading she seems to be saying exactly what you always say, which is women and men are both masculine and feminine and it is ludicrous to think that we are only feminine. I’ll be back to read her answer because I am as puzzled as you but curious beyond belief.
Jonathon, this was an excellent podcast. Thank you so very much.
Thanks, Linda, Much appreciated.