Ask Him THESE Questions Before Sleeping Together
If you follow my work for a while, you’ll know that I see the dating process as a fact-finding mission to determine if two people are a fit for a long-term relationship. Also, I (now) view the act of sex as a bonding experience vs. a pump & dump experience (apologies if that sounded crude).
This is why I look at sleeping with someone as a big deal, and it should not be taken lightly. Unfortunately, many men do take it lightly, and this is why I want my clients to take a more strategic approach before choosing to have sex.
In today’s episode, we will explore the need to have a DEEPER conversation with a man before sleeping together to avoid heartbreak in the future.
Let’s talk about… Ask Him THESE Questions Before Sleeping Together
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Maddy says
100% on many men being completely freaked out to be exclusive to have sex now! I for one can not feel safe/cared for/respected if a guy is still swiping and we are being intimate! I love when you say “this was the norm before but may be confusing to you now” — because back in the day this was NEVER AN ISSUE. Unless you were dating “a player.” Now anyone can be a player — Lord help us all! Lol. Anyway, great podcast and for sure do a porn one because i find the psychology fascinating on how this has desensitized (and warped) a lot of people’s views on sex and what is positive, consenting and *actually* pleasurable to women. Thanks so much!
Jonathon Aslay says
Thank you for sharing…
Nicole Chambers says
Dating, mating, and relating is a process like most things in life. These videos are so helpful. So glad I listened to this today. It has come at the perfect time. God is never late, thank goodness. I consistently appreciate your point of view Jonathon and your life’s work. Hugging you!
Jonathon Aslay says
Sending light & love your way. Hugging back…