5 Hidden Insecurities Men Feel (But Don’t Talk About)
“Men are required to be strong and not show emotions.”
Speaking as a man, the above sentence was drilled in my head as a child and even more so as an adult, which leads to decades of stored up angst in my life.
Research shows that we will open up about our feelings; there’s a better chance to heal any wounds or traumas from experience. But here’s the thing about most men, they struggle opening up for fear of seeming weak, which is why if one knows ahead of time the most common problems, the easier the conversation.
In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER understanding of the most common insecurities men hide, and yet they feel them in their bones but don’t talk about it.
Let’s talk about… 5 Hidden Insecurities Men Feel (But Don’t Talk About)
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Linda Curtis says
Jonathon, thank you – you are the best breakfast partner ever, just so informative. Actually I guess you are my only breakfast partner these days since I have totally gotten off of YouTube and Facebook! Well, again, thank you for such valuable information. Sexual performance – yep that’s a big one. Last sexual partner (it’s been a while now) didn’t ejaculate one time and was bummed. I literally told him, “Hey, this is great – last night we destroyed your testosterone and we just now built it back up again – woohoo. He already thought I was a little nuts, but what a smile I got and the next day when I left I said “I would not trade the time I just spent with you for anything on earth.” I am a woman who puts a lot of the responsibility on women’s shoulders because we have the power to lift up or destroy, and in hearing women talk it’s clear they often choose the wrong path! Well, Jonathon, once again thank you so very much for being a man who does educate women. All I would add is, Women, please do as much research as you can so you truly understand men because (as I believe Alison Armstrong says) they are not hairy women!
Jonathon Aslay says
That’s a first to hear, thank you so much.
Debbie says
Excellent podcast! Whats the matter with sharing the cost. Most men welcome that. If i see you 4 times a week..why cant we share lunch or dinner expenses and why cant we share cooking/take turns. I think thats most practical. No, my ex died of stage 4 pancreatic cancer so there is definitely no feelings there.Regarding penis size and performance..the penis in the vagina is not the only way to make a woman happy. My all time favorite lover who was excellent spooning. There was nothing sexual howevwe very intimate. I believe personally its BS to feel you are not good enough. I learned that lesson when i was with a narcisstic male.
Jonathon Aslay says
WOW! Thank you.
Sarah says
Thank you!! I really resonated with the fear of vulnerability from recent loss and to hear you explain it really feels comforting, validating, empowering, and unifying. We are all just navigating. Thanks for the work you do.
Jonathon Aslay says
Thank you as well, much appreciated.