4 Ways Men Test Women (How To Spot A Serious Guy)
Did you know that men throw up what’s known as trial balloons to see where a woman is at in her life concerning important topics to a man?
Trial balloons are another way of saying testing, and it’s rather common for men and women to test one another in the early stages of dating, mating, and relating.
In today’s episode, we will explore the DEEPER understanding of how men use simple trial balloons or tests to see if you are on the same page as him.
Let’s talk about… 4 Ways Men Test Women (How To Spot A Serious Guy)
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I like to ssk lots of questions to get to know someone. This is how I connect with people.iys not specific to Men. Men that are more reserved are sometimes uncomfortable with the questions but some answer. Others may ask the relationship to progress naturally without asking questions. How do you weed out the emotional immature men from the shy or reserved men that just need to progress slower,?
Great question… that’s what I teach in my private coaching. https://www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Jonathan, 4 ways men test women… IMHO the 2 that a serious guy uses are the family/friends compatibility test and the road trip stress test. I think the sexual innuendo and the casual relationship tests are less indicative of someone who is interested in a serious long term relationship.
Thank you for sharing…
Agree
Approval or friends & family
Road trip
Indications of someone looking for long term
Sexual innuendo-most men do that early,
If they don’t I would question if we are a fit
Saying casual May or may not be a parachute if
They want to move on
Personally I would pass on someone who said they wanted casual
Sooooo Jonathon what do
You think the answers are ??
Mellisa, Answers are to what?
Thank you for all the interesting information. In answer to your questions .I believe your road trip is the number one true test.That reveals a lot about each person. Most importantly it really shows how a person does react under stressful situations.Not only that you really get to know the other person whether it be a short trip or a long trip. I went on a short trip my first time out with this guy started dating and at that time we were just friends. Mind you he picks up Pets and delivers them all over the place. The first road trip was only six days. That trip was so we can kind of get to know each other. After that trip we started dating and then I went on a 2 Week Rd. trip. This trip told me a whole lot about this fella. For the most part we got along pretty good. Up until the second trip he had not tried any sexual advantages or anything like .But then he did and he had dysfunctional issues. I also found out he did not like the fact that my youngest son called me at 7:30 in the morning..This is one of the issues I’ve had with all the men I’ve dated they are either jealous or they don’t like my youngest child taking my time. It’s like that time being taken from them as an adult.
Well I had issues with that. I really got to see the true colors of this guy and his tantrums when things did not go his way. Mind you we’ve already been on the road for 2 weeks. We are now on our way to take me back home. We are in Minot North Dakota in a motel room. My son calls at 7:30 in the morning to find out where I’m at and how things are going. This man had a totally complete flip out, he threatened to buy me a bus ticket and send me the rest of the way home.Lots of red flags, he showed me how very immature and selfish he really was,
Normally I wouldn’t have been so upset over it. When we first started this 2 Week Rd. trip I had lost my wallet in Oregon,So I was flat broke and very dependent on him by this point. Not only that my son had just lost his father on the 10th of December. I started this second road trip the 2 Week Rd. trip with this guy on 4 January. When he showed me his colors and his reactions when my son had called me I let him know I had never been that far away from my son,He’s 20 years old he was concerned about his mother and her whereabouts. Not only that he had just lost his father.
Regardless I continue to try and date this guy well it all fell through the cracks in. When he stormed out of my house at 3:30 in the morning because I had told him no I wasn’t going to go back to Michigan for a week. I learned a lot on the Road trip. So in my opinion a road trip will answer all your questions in no time at all as to whether or not you might be compatible with the other person. Secondly I think a lunch date Will give you enough time to decide as to whether or not you’re compatible at all and as to whether or not you want to go any further. I had already met this guy several times for lunch over the past two years and I thought that we were compatible we seem to have a lot of the same interests thoughts and ideas. It wasn’t until I went on the Second road trip did I really see what kind of a man he was. The first road trip I went with him on the six day trip we got along fine. And then it crashed.