The Emotional Trigger That Cause Men To Go SILENT!!!
Does chemistry equal commitment? Chemistry is wonderful and fun but in today’s society you’re also fighting the hook up culture.
Hundreds of years ago couples never had to worry about going silent or being ghosted because there weren’t years of dating or hooking up before marriage. In those days, young people met and figured out rather quickly whether they wanted a commitment (aka marriage) and if chemistry was there, all the better.
Today’s episode will explore the DEEPER conversation about why men will sometimes ghost a woman, even when they have chemistry and have the desire to get married.
Let’s talk about…The Emotional Trigger That Cause Men To Go SILENT!!!
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Pretty good stuff here!
I’ve come to enjoy emotionally unavailable men and set appreciate ambivalent
For those of us who are both and have become secure we offer compassion, understanding, and we are high adaptive problem solvers.
There is a huge western myth that says that personal achievement and personal wealth are the foundations of human
happiness, and anything that slows or blocks a person’s path to riches and glory is an inherent waste of time or, at the very least, a questionable use of one’s resources.
I’m done labeling people more. I ask if they at least curious and open to learning new things – about me, about themselves, about the world.
People who are very walled off emotionally can only handle small doses of it, it’s unkind and painful rushin there and tearing down their walls.
At this point for me it’s to limiting to think of others as either insecure and toxic or completely available and open
Thank you kindly…
Hello Jonathon,
Sensible advice, indeed. It is not your fault if a guy ghost you. The answers are usually self-explanatory: not interested, he has somebody else, he wants to play the field, and, lastly, he is scared/intimidated somehow. My question for you is, what is the explanation of everyone around you ghosting you? Like nobody contacts you ever, nobody answer to your phone calls, you are totally rejected. Note: divorced from a guy who slandered me, while behaving like I am still his property, although he was never faithful. He scared away everyone around me, I am basically ostracized, isolated. In this context, then, a guy friend, or so I thought, ran away from me when I reached out. That was the most painful thing in my life. The person that I thought, got me, treated me the same as all the others in my environment. Painful, but here, it’s a very special general situation that I cannot explain. It’s more of a terrible smear campaign on me, where everybody believed the lies and they are avoiding me. One lie was that I was crazy. My whole world has collapsed. So, the beloved friend whom I did have an special mental, emotional connection with, is not to blame, because, there is something wrong going on here, such as my ex-husband and his narcissistic family blocking any tentative of me moving on. It’s all silence around me, deafening silence. Mental and emotional abuse.