Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest??
My coaching clients tell me all the time that when a guy goes silent – even when the chemistry is awesome – they have a difficult time not jumping to conclusions, such as, “He doesn’t like me; I hit a nerve; I did something wrong”. You know the routine. But those thoughts are really made up stories or assumptions.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Having amazing chemistry with someone does not mean you’ll have a successful long-term relationship. Chemistry certainly helps with the physical side of a relationship but if you want a long-term partner, you’ll both need to dig deeper and share your values and dreams to build a solid foundation.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why fear, frustration, and silence can manifest in a relationship and how to work around those emotions.
Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest??
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Marion E says
I found you on YouTube quite by accident – THANK HEAVENS, You have brought to lite so many things that I never realized, and you have helped me understand I’ve been married twice – lost both husbands to Cancer, and now I met this guy – I guess I’m the exception – right up front I told him ” I’m not looking for husband #3, I don’t need someone to “take care of me” or financially support me, I just want to have a relationship that includes dinners, travel, and just having fun. He said “Ya me too!” that was 2 1/2 years ago – I’m 80 he is 74 and we have a wonderful platonic relationship – I’m not interested in sex and he has ED so we are perfectly happy just enjoying each other’s company and doing stuff together. We both have “baggage”and we have shared it and accept that we just are enjoying the remaining yerars together – he has his home, I have mine and we are perfectly happy. He hadn’t dated in 20 years and I have been widowed 9 years.