Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t match her desired agenda. A man might pretend to want a serious relationship with a
Setting the Pace in a New Relationship
Have you ever heard the saying “Men are the gas and women are the brakes?” This is never more true than the man who comes on very strong in the beginning. He lavishes attention on the woman, wining and dining her, appearing to be very romantic and saying all the right things. The woman can
You’re in Control of Your Destiny
You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can see, I’ve checked the box of what many people have gone through or who are
Should Men Always Pay For the Date?
In my parents’ day it was a given that the guy always picked up the tab and that has been the traditional expectation over the years. But are things different now? Let’s say a woman makes $175,000 a year and her boyfriend makes $95,000 a year. They each have equal personal expenses and they
Understanding Destination Addiction
Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and are spending regular time with your guy. He’s attentive, communicative, employed, kind and generous… plus
How To Attract Positive People Into Your Life
How to Attract Positive People Into Your Life Most people who come to me for coaching tend to have one thing in common… they focus more on what they don’t want, instead of what they do want. “I don’t want a cheater, a liar, a player, a lazy man or a man out of shape.”
Endings and New Beginnings
As many of you know, I’m not a fan of long distance relationships. One big reason is because one of my primary love languages is physical time together. Some may consider this a limiting belief and that could be very true but that is what works best for me. Unfortunately my relationship with Angela came
Why Men Lose Interest
There’s an old saying: Women marry men in hopes that they will change while men marry women hoping they don’t change. Speaking as a man, this feels like such a truism and this may answer a lot of questions as to why a man might be into you and then disappear. When a man
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