Why Men Like to Project About the Future One woman recently wrote to me: “One of my biggest frustrations with dating is that many men like to project about the future. They’re often thinking about possibility of a big house with a white picket fence before we’ve even had enough time to get to know each
Should You Accept His Words at Face Value?
You meet a new guy and the chemistry is intense. He tells you that you’re not like anyone he’s ever met, and that something about you is very different than any other women. He feels a unique connection with you that goes beyond words. You’re the first woman that he’s felt this strongly about (and
Online Dating is the New Organic
Online Dating is the New Organic If I were paid a dollar each time that I’ve heard about the frustrations of online dating over the years, I’d be rich. Wait a minute, I am rich. (Well, I’m rich with life anyway.) The fact is, for those of us who are over 45, meeting a person
How to Get Him to Commit
How to Get Him to Commit As a midlife dating coach, I’ve noticed a lot of women who spend a lot of energy complaining about relationship problems, such as men who are no longer romantic, don’t match their emotional level or just don’t want to commit. This is a total waste of time and will often
The 5 Phases of Mid-Life Relationships
The 5 Phases of Mid-Life Relationships Let’s face it—creating a successful relationship during mid-life can be a challenge, and at times it can be a total pain in the ass. We all know people who have no trouble finding and keeping a relationship after 40. It’s tempting to say they find potential mates everywhere because
Why Men Lose Interest
There’s an old saying: Women marry men in hopes that they will change while men marry women hoping they don’t change. Speaking as a man, this feels like such a truism and this may answer a lot of questions as to why a man might be into you and then disappear. When a man
Learning To Move Forward In Life
Learning To Move Forward In Life How has life been treating you lately? For most of us, life has become uncertain. Troubles such as family woes, a precarious economy, a difficult diagnosis and scary headlines can leave us feeling like hiding under a rock. But hiding ourselves away and stagnating isn’t how life is meant
Why Is Finding Love After 40 So Difficult?
Why Is Finding Love After 40 So Difficult? Finding love after 40 is not for the faint of heart. In your 20s, it was easy to meet men at work, clubs or other social events. After 40, the blending of lives makes things more complicated in establishing new relationships. Some of these factors include children,
