A Change of Perspective on LDRs For those of you who’ve followed me for a while, you know I’ve pooh-poohed relationships that communicate more by text than over the phone or in person. I always considered them “bubble” relationships and never took them seriously. I also encouraged my clients to never put too much stock
From Jonathon’s Mailbag… Fading Away and Bonding Through Sex
From Jonathon’s Mailbag… Fading Away and Bonding Through Sex Dear Ladies, I receive quite a bit of email and try to answer all of them, and some questions come up repeatedly. I’d like to share two of them with you, along with my answers. Here goes… Dear Jonathon, I’ve been with my guy for a
Dating Over 50… What’s Going On Here?
Dating Over 50… What’s Going On Here? I hear from quite a few women (and men) over 50, and they tell me it’s tough to date. They’re frustrated, and here are their most common complaints. Men over 50 want to date women 10-20 years younger. Some will date women as young as they possibly can.
Why the 10 Date Rule Works
Why the 10 Date Rule Works We’ve all heard stories of people who slept together on the first date and it turned into forever after. How often do you think that happens? Honestly? Not nearly as often as you might think… about one in every million one-night stands. Those odds aren’t great, so how can
Men: How They Shift To Teamwork & Partnership In Your Relationship
Men: How They Shift To Teamwork & Partnership In Your Relationship Have you ever wondered how men shift from being self contained to partnership in a relationship? Let me share my personal story to give you a clue. So it turns out I’m 37000 feet in the air traveling home from New York City, NY as
Why Men Leave… Becoming A Hero To A New Woman
Why Men Leave… Becoming A Hero To A New Woman Have you ever dated a man who left you and then became committed to another woman? If yes, was he by chance going through a transition in his life? You know what I mean, a guy who might have been struggling and then turned his
What Men Say is the #1 Mistake Women Make in Relationships
What Men Say is the #1 Mistake Women Make in Relationships As a single woman wanting to know how guys think, don’t you wish you could be the fly on the wall in a man’s locker room? When it comes to understanding men and hearing what we say about women, the locker room is the
Men Don’t Call It Friends With Benefits, They Just Say They’re Not Ready For a Serious Relationship
Men Don’t Call It Friends With Benefits, They Just Say They’re Not Ready For a Serious Relationship When a relationship with sex is not serious, isn’t it really just friends with benefits (FWB) or a booty call? During a recent conversation with a guy who shared his current dating habits I realized an interesting pattern