Don’t Put Him on a Pedestal When you place someone else’s happiness above your own needs, wants, or desires, you’ve effectively put that person on a pedestal. You’re saying that he or she is more important than you are. Because women are typically selfless and full of love, they tend to do this to their
Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious
Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious Over the years, I’ve noticed that most people date with an intent for connection or completion, which is why so many struggle in the early stages. They have an agenda for dating and put expectations on each other, which can kill the natural unfolding of a relationship.
Discover More Secrets about Men in Tips 7–10
Discover More Secrets about Men in Tips 7–10 Have you learned anything new about men in the first six tips? Here are the last four for your enjoyment. Think about how you can apply these to your current or next relationship, and the man in your life will thank you. Best Understand Men Tip #7
Are You Truly Ready to Be in a Relationship?
Are You Truly Ready to Be in a Relationship? These days, many people are waiting to heal their wounds or love themselves before entering a relationship. They have read or heard from psychologists and coaches who say they need to be whole before they can be in a partnership. There is some truth to this.
Why Do You Have So Many “Deal Breakers”?
Why Do You Have So Many “Deal Breakers”? One of my clients, Leslie, has been divorced for five years and dating for two. She hasn’t been very successful with men so far, so she came to me. She’s a beautiful redhead with blue eyes that twinkle and a killer sense of humor. She’s smart, together,
Are Conflicting Rules Why You’re Still Single?
Are Conflicting Rules Why You’re Still Single? I wrote the following post on my Spotlight Coaching forum and boy were the comment flying: “From my experience, one of the greatest challenges for those seeking to attract a mate stems from having conflicting rules. Part of them wants love, but the other part doesn’t want to
“Relationship Lite” A New Way to Date (Part 1)
“Relationship Lite” A New Way to Date (Part 1) I want you to do something for me. I want you to imagine yourself in a couple of dating scenarios that I’m going to paint for you. Ready? Ok, here we go. Dating Scenario #1 You just went on a coffee date with a man you
Why You Should Give Online Dating A Try
Why You Should Give Online Dating A Try There are many reasons why people look for love online. Perhaps they’re recently divorced or have been through a major relationship breakup, or have moved to a new city and don’t know anyone. Maybe they’re self-employed and work from home or they simply wish to widen the
