Unlocking the Male Mind

Discover the 7 Secret Insights About Men and What They’re Thinking at Each Stage of a Relationship—So You Can Easily Create an Incredible Connection with the Right Man

Has it been difficult for you to find a good, desirable man who isn’t in some way commitment-phobic or afraid of love?


Men can be difficult to understand. Dating can feel like a crazy-making endeavor. Why, for example, will a man say one thing (“I’m really into you”) but do another (not call for days and days, or ignore your text messages)? 

It almost seems that most single men over 30 are either broken, not interested in a serious relationship, or out to satisfy their own selfish agenda. 


Yet, there are many couples out there who seem happy and fulfilled. You may even have friends with relationships you envy because they’ve fallen in love with mature, fantastic men. Why aren’t you meeting THOSE kind of men—ones who are interested in cultivating a healthy relationship built on trust, honesty and real passion?


Here’s an astounding fact: Most men really DO want to be in love, and they really DO want to be in relationships. They feel the same kind of frustration that you do about meeting “The One.”

The fact is, it’s easy to create the kind of connection and intimacy that will trigger a man to adore you, want you, and be fully committed to you. You simply need to understand how men think, what they want from a relationship with a woman, and how to inspire their greatness.


In this 2-part audio recording, you’ll learn the 7 “inside secrets” on what makes men tick when it comes to dating, love and commitment, so you’ll finally understand and appreciate why a man behaves the way he does. 

By understanding what a man is really thinking when it comes to love, sex and commitment, you’ll be able to easily and quickly meet the right man and create an incredible connection between you that he won’t be able to resist.

Here's what you'll learn in

Unlocking the Male Mind:

  • How to spot a commitment-ready man, and the kind of man that you should avoid at all costs.
  • What men REALLY want in a relationship…it’s probably not what you think.
  • The tell-tale sign to spot a man is truly emotionally available, or one who’ll run as soon as things get “intense.”
  • What a man really means when he says certain things…like “I’m looking for a woman who knows how to have fun” or “I want to take things slow” or “Let’s just see where this goes”
  • What a man considers sexy and what will turn him off…which may surprise you
  • What it really means when a man acts flaky, distant, stand-offish or suddenly turns cold, and how YOU should handle it.

    And much more…

Sign up now for this 2-hour audio course, where you’ll get Jonathon’s unique insight about how to better understand your man and know exactly what he might be thinking or feeling.


You’ll get a recording of the course emailed to you so you can listen at your convenience again and again.

Order Today and Download These Valuable Bonuses Immediately:

SPECIAL BONUS #1 ($47 VALUE)


The Relationships Men Commit to and Why – Experience the most connected, loving relationship of your life by learning the 7 secret insights about men and how they think at each stage of a relationship from a first date, to saying, “I love you”, to committing to you forever.

Special Bonus #2 ($47.00 Value)

His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – Discover why (and how) men screw up and what that might mean for the future of your relationship, along with how to recognize and respond to the three “F”s men suffer from without damaging your future. Plus, a special one-hour discussion of every man’s hero’s journey, and how it affects his dating life.

Special Bonus #3 ($47.00 Value)

Attract Men Who Don’t Need Fixing – Sometimes the most compelling and charismatic men are the ones with all the issues. They may start out seeming to be playful and fun, sexy and romantic, but it isn’t long before their “dark side” appears.

Discover how you can avoid the men with “issues” and start attracting guys who are ready and able to commit to your future together.

Special Bonus #4 ($97.00 Value)

5 Keys to Unlocking His Heart – There’s something most women don’t know about men, and even most men don’t even understand about themselves. And it’s this: The secret to cracking the code to a man’s love, affection and commitment are 5 Simple Keys.

Put these keys to work and he’ll begin to talk about “your future” together, he’ll want to spend time with you more often, he’ll try hard to please you and be your most adoring fan.

Order this audio course TODAY if you:

  • Wonder if that great guy is really commitment ready…how will you know?
  • Always seem to attract men who say one thing but do another.
  • Have begun to think that all eligible men are just…broken.
  • Can’t seem to figure out what men really want in a relationship.
  • Have dated men who turned distant or cold as soon as things turned serious.

Unlock the male mind and learn the real reasons for these and other relationship issues – and what YOU can do to stop it from happening to you.

Who will benefit from this program?


  1. If you think that all men are just after “one thing” and would probably not chose to fall in love and commit if women didn’t pressure them into it.
  2. If you’ve been left feeling angry, jaded or disgusted with your recent experiences in dating and relationships.
  3. If you spend hours wondering why a man did what he did, or said what he said, because his words and actions often don’t match.
  4. If you would like to be the kind of woman a man can’t resist falling in love with. You see other women being adored and want to know what are they doing that you’re not?
  5. If the man you’re with seems scared of commitment, and you want to know what it will take to make him want a future with you.

Then Unlocking the Male Mind is for You!

Jonathon Aslay is like the big brother you SHOULD have had

Jonathon Aslay is like the big brother you SHOULD have had. He REALLY wants everyone to be romantically happy, and to find TRUE love. His practical, personal experience of finding, losing, and then REALLY finding true love, combined with his years of coaching hundreds of women and then hearing from thousands more through his amazing social networking communities, has given him a wealth of wisdom and insight to share with ANY woman wanting to understand men, and chart her own romantic course successfully. He’s the real deal… who can help you get and KEEP the real thing.

Carol Allen, Love Is In The Stars

Order Today and Receive…

  • 2-Part Audio Course – Listen to the recording again and again as you make your way through the world of dating.
  • Bonus Recording: His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – Why (and how) men screw up and what it means for the future of your relationship.
  • Bonus Recording: Attract Men Who Don’t Need Fixing – Stop getting stuck with men who are broken and start attracting who are ready and able to commit.
  • Bonus Recording: 5 Keys to Unlocking His Heart – Discover the simple keys that will trigger love and commitment in any man.

Total Value $297.00
You Pay Only $27.00


PLUS $188.00 in Valuable Bonuses

Unlocking the Male Mind and all other Understand Men Now products are delivered as  digital downloads.

No printed material or CD/DVD recordings will be  mailed to you.

How I Became the Guy Spy for Single Women and Learned How to Get Inside a Guy’s Head

When I divorced many years ago, I dated a lot. I wasn’t interested in anything serious at first, but just like a lot of guys who are fresh to the dating scene, I wasn’t too forthcoming about my intentions. (Since then I’ve done a LOT of reflection and personal growth.)

I thus met a lot of different women. Even though our relationship would never go past just “casual” they really enjoyed talking to me. I was a great listener. They’d tell me about the horrible experiences they had with the men they had been involved with, and used those stories as opportunities for learning something about myself and men in general.

I began to notice very clear patterns in the stories they were telling me. The men who were in love acted a certain way, and those who were just pretending to be in love, but had a secret agenda, acted a different way. Pretty soon it became obvious that a typical man can’t hide his true intentions—his words and actions gave him away clearly, whether he was interested in just a one-night stand or a lifetime commitment. You just have to know what to listen and look for!

After listening to a woman’s story and asking a few key questions, I could predict with accuracy what her boyfriend’s intentions were.
The trouble was that almost all these women had NO idea what their men were really thinking. They were just too emotionally vested to be clear-eyed and objective.

I was such a “natural” confidant and advisor, that the women I’d gotten to know wanted to remain friends and talk to me about their dating experiences long after we had stopped seeing each other romantically. I developed a network of close friendships with both men and women seeking to choose better when it came to life partners. This is how my career as a dating coach and confidant began.
Since then, I’ve taught hundreds of clients “purposeful dating” using the methods I’d developed through years of observation, research and personal experience.

Women come to me because I bridge the gap between being a “guy’s guy” and a compassionate personal confidant. They want insights into what their man is thinking and feeling, and what they can expect for the future with the man they’re with.


Now I can use my many years of experience and observation to show you how to get inside a guy’s head and know what his true intentions are!

A Very Special Thank You to Jonathon

After 5 years together Kyle & I are getting married Nov. 7th, 2015. We are so excited! We have a wonderful relationship & it all happened because of Jonathon. I was newly divorced & not making the best decisions on dating. I met Jonathon & became a member [of the Spotlight Coaching Group] and he coached me through a difficult time in my life & got me on the right track. I listened to him and put the tools that he taught me to work. I met Kyle 5 years ago and it has been wonderful. I never thought Love could be this good!

Cathy Villani

Order Today and Receive...

  • 2-Part Audio Course – Listen to the recording again and again as you make your way through the world of dating.
  • Bonus Recording: His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – Why (and how) men screw up and what it means for the future of your relationship.
  • Bonus Recording: Attract Men Who Don’t Need Fixing – Stop getting stuck with men who are broken and start attracting who are ready and able to commit.
  • Bonus Recording: 5 Keys to Unlocking His Heart – Discover the simple keys that will trigger love and commitment in any man.

Total Value $297.00


You Pay Only $27.00


 PLUS $188.00 in Valuable Bonuses

Unlocking the Male Mind and all other Understand Men Now products are delivered as  digital downloads.

No printed material or CD/DVD recordings will be  mailed to you.

Private & group coaching, workshops, teleclasses and digitally downloadable products are designed to be intellectually and conversationally stimulating and for enlightenment and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be used for mental or medical diagnosis or treatment. Mr. Aslay makes no guarantees or representation that he will resolve your relationship query. All audio recordings & transcriptions produced during any live workshop, teleclass or group coaching session is the property of Jonathon Aslay, Understand Men Now (UMN). Participation waives all rights in the recordings and the audios may result in future resale and Jonathon Aslay, UMN retains full rights in it’s use. Our refund policy and other terms and conditions can be found here.