Conscious Dating
How Old Beliefs About Courtship, Chemistry and Chivalry Can Ruin Your Life and What You Can Do to Create Everlasting Love
We all want to love and be loved. We want to find a soul mate who will understand us, support us and thrill us. We want to feel inspired by love. We want to have the kind of relationship that will stand the test of time and at the same time be romantic and passion-filled.
Yet somehow, if you’re like many women in midlife, this kind of love feels elusive or difficult.
The men you meet aren’t emotionally available or if they are, they’re cheapskates, creeps or control freaks. It seems that the men you’re attracted to aren’t attracted to you. Or if there IS chemistry, the guy seems to only stay interested long enough for you to become attached and ultimately, heartbroken. Then he disappears or acts hot and cold, confusing you and driving you crazy.
You know you need to meet a man who is more in line with who YOU really are and what you’re really need to be happy.
You know you can’t keep ending up in relationships with men who feel exciting or with whom you feel red hot chemistry, but aren’t really a good fit. They aren’t a fit because they want different things, have different interests and aren’t really ready for a real relationship.
You know you should slow down, work on yourself a little bit more, and get to a place of greater clarity so that you can make better choices in the future.
You know what you need to do, but you just can’t seem to do it, and you don’t know why.
It can sometimes feel that your happiness in life is entirely out of your control!
What if the reason you’re unlucky in love or haven’t found “The One” has nothing to do with the kind of men you’re meeting or how attracted these men are to you?
What if you learned that your success with dating is entirely within your control and that you can begin to turn things around for yourself immediately just by becoming more conscious of the choices, beliefs and stories to which you’re subscribing?
What if changing your luck in love was as simple as changing your perspective?
Recently I’ve made an observation about many men and women over 40: They hold unexamined beliefs about how thing “should be” when it comes to dating. A lot of these beliefs are outdated and quite frankly, dangerous when it comes to your emotional well-being. For example, do you agree with any of these statements?
A man should always ask a woman out, not the other way around.
A man should know what he wants and how to get there when it comes to relationships.
The man needs to be the leader in the relationship. He sets the pace and the plan.
The man should pay for the date. Otherwise, if he asks to split the check, he’s a cheapskate and you don’t want to date him.
The most important indicator of the viability any relationship is how much chemistry and attraction you feel on the first date or two.
Romance keeps love alive. Couples who stay together for decades know how to be romantic together.
As a woman, you need to express your “feminine energy” in order to attract a man.
Men should be providers and protectors, and women are the “heart” of any partnership.
- The best way to a man’s heart is through great sex.
If you find yourself in agreement with some or even all of these statements, it probably means that you’ve had quite a few disappointing experiences and heartbreaks.
Put it another way: Most of us have "a story" as to what we want, how it should show up and what's missing. And it's this story that's holding you back.
Therefore, I’ve created this workshop as a way to help you create a "new story" and date more consciously instead of unconsciously going along with ideas that your parents and grandparents instilled in your psyche that no longer serve you, and may even be detrimental to your happiness today!
In this workshop, I will help you get clarity on what you want, help you remove the expectations on how it’s all supposed to “show up” and show you how to use the Law of Attraction to surround yourself with men who are compatible with you.
After you complete the workshop, you should expect to get back into dating with your eyes wide open, your heart no longer contracted in fear, and with a new-found understanding of what “conscious dating” really means and how it can help you build the love life of your dreams.
- The common paradigms (long-entrenched belief systems) you hold that are actually ruining your chances of finding ever-lasting love, and what you can do to bust these paradigms and have a new and better experience with dating.
The 2 factors that determine if a man is actually compatible with you that have zero to do with how much “chemistry” you feel (Jonathon: emotional intelligence and shared values)
The best method for determining true compatibility that will help you weed out the kind of men who will overpromise, disappear, or disappoint you.
A greater understanding of what sex really means to a man, how he becomes attached (or not) and how you can pace a relationship to get to know a man better before getting too intimate too quickly.
And much more…
This Workshop Is Especially For You If:
You would like to stop wasting your time on dates that go nowhere.
- You are disappointed because the men you date come on strong at first, sleep with you, then disappear or pull away.
You find that men tend to make a lot of promises they don’t keep.
- You’re convinced that men are “clueless” when it comes to relationships.
You don’t understand why a man tells you that you’re special and unlike any other woman he’s dated, but his actions don’t match his words.
You tend to want one kind of man but attract someone entirely different (stable and kind versus bad boy and emotionally unavailable).
You just want to become more conscious about dating and the choices you’re making, so you can meet and fall in love with a man who is really more compatible with you.
This Workshop Is NOT For You If:
You think great chemistry can overcome any challenge in dating and resolve any incompatibilities in a relationship.
- You think that men are to blame for all your relationship troubles or dating issues.
You’re sitting there thinking, “Why do I have to do all the work? Why can’t a man work on himself?”
